I have been humbled over the last week with the many sweet comments on my blog, the private emails, the phone calls and those of you that have asked me face to face about my last post. He has used you to remind me that we aren't alone in our struggles. I am usually not that open in my posts (although I do wear my heart on my sleeve, just who I am) but felt very led to share all of that on my blog. After several of your comments, emails and calls, I knew that He asked me to lay aside my pride for a reason and used it to encourage others. I desire for this blog to be an encouragment to others and sometimes that means laying it all out there which can be hard. Sometimes I care too much what others think of me and so that means painting a picture that we have it all together all of the time which is not always the case.
We had a good week. The kids just finished their first nine weeks and all ended it well! Madi played her last VB game of the season (and had a great game!) and Jordan's soccer team finished first in district so now they head into playoffs (they won state last year!). It was a beautful weekend and we enjoyed spending time together as a family.
We have passed some milestones with Hudson! He is FINALLY going to sleep on his own! Sleeping has been his biggest issue since we got him. He has seemed so afraid and would literally THROW himself out of his crib. He has been in big boy bed for a couple months but still really struggled. The hard part is it takes him sometimes over an hour to get to sleep. Obviously with three other kids, it is hard to take that time every night, especially if it is just one of us home. We have been willing to take it slow for obvious reasons but know he is also at a point of understanding we are not leaving. So, we are on night 5 of him going to sleep by himself. The last two nights he hasn't even cried. He has become attached to a doll that we have (Jordan doesn't think this is right!) and he puts her night night with him and talks away to her. Last night I heard him saying "China" to her.......????
Second milestone is he now will go to the nursery at church without crying! This has also been a slow process but we are so grateful he realizes that we are coming back.
The third is, he went up two shoe sizes!! I bought him new shoes Friday and he went from a 5 to a 7! Yeah, he is growing! Of course we don't want him growing up too fast but because the dr.'s have been concerned about his heighth we are happy to see some growth. He will always be small I am sure.....we think his body is also catching up with his head! LOL!
The fourth, he is beginning to put two words together. Tonight he told me to sit down!!! We have been working on two word phrases in speech and he is progressing every week!!
No new pictures yet....hoping to have some later this week!!!!
7 comments:
Fantastic milestones! I will say that I'm slightly jealous of the sleep one. My girl will sleep for 10 to 12 hours at a shot, but even after 21 months, we've never been able to get her to go to sleep on her own...
Your blog is sure an encouragement for many people and for me personally. I read your few recent blogs and found them bless me very much. The faith you have in Him whenever the obstacles strike your life. And the perseverance you have to always rely on Him and be obedient at doing what He asks you to do.
And Hudson is definitely a very cute boy. He is a darling..^^ I'm very glad to know he made many progressions. I love your heart too for loving this forgotten child and making me very special today. Thanks heaps for your wonderful comment. It is an encouragement, Sharon. Thank you. I was actually weeping, knowing that somebody like you still cares about my story. Thank you. God bless. =))
You are such an encouragement Sharon...I am blessed to know you!
Glad to hear Hudson is doing better with his sleeping. Maggie has been sleeping well for awhile, but staying in Sunday School is still tramatic for her for some reason. Everyone wants me to just leave her and let her cry it out, but I just can't do it yet. She actually gets to the point where she is hyperventilating...poor thing. I guess she needs some more time~
Let's start working on that reunion...have a great week~
Sharon,
Something that helped Jenna's transition to going to sleep on her own - I dug out our old baby monitor. We would play a game with it, where I would go to a different part of the house and she would call to me. I would come running into her room (always out of breath and hamming it up), and she would laugh. It seemed to comfort her enough at the time, but she still has phases where she will have difficulty and seems genuinely frightened.
Now, I have a slight advantage in that Jenna is a little older and can readily share her feelings. One night while I was sitting with her, she confided that she worries sometimes that if she goes to sleep, we won't be there when she wakes up. Pretty much sums it all up right there. She's been home for almost 2 years (2 years in December)and still has occasional bouts of this insecurity. This makes me sad, but she lived in China for 2 years and 9 mos., which is longer than we have had her. Time and love are great healers!
:0) Michele
Sharon,
So glad I have meet such a wonderful woman that you are!
Glad to know that Hudson is sleeping. Andy seems to go in patterns and we are back to hard nights. I can just feel the panic as we struggle for security. He sleeps with two bears( in his mouth). I wonder always if he slept with anything in China.
You will have to tell Jordan that Andy currently is wearing his sisters "pink boots". Maybe the doll won't seeem so bad!!!
They are amazing kids!!
Teri
Sharon,
So glad you have had a better week! I missed you! ;o) Congrats to Madi on an excellent VB game! I can't wait to see how Jordan's soccer team does in the playoffs! Yahoo! That's so exciting! It's also so exciting that Hudson has had all those neat milestones!
I hope your week continues to be good!
Wanted to share that we got our PA today.....at least one step closer!
Love, Traci
Sharon,
I'm so glad you have had so many milestones with Hudson. Praise God for him going to sleep on his own! I'm sure it makes a big difference at night and helps you to be able to spend more time with your other kids.
Also, I need to know since his foot has grown, what size clothes he's wearing now? E-mail it to Tina for her to send it to me. I have something for him but don't want it to be too little.
Love,
Secret Sis
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