3.30.2008

GOTCHA DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well...........We have him!!!!!!! I don't even know where to begin. I guess at the beginning. Because China is having a national holiday this week and all offices will be closed some orphanages chose to bring the kids on Sunday. This meant a very long and a very late night. We spent the morning in Beijing touring the Summer Palace. It was sunny today and much more pleasant. We had a boat ride, went to the pearl factory (great pearls Kim!!) and ate lunch. We were ALL so anxious to just get going. We arrived at the airport around 2:30, checked in, said our goodbyes to our travel group and the three famlies heading to Gansu went off to our gate. We were delayed at the gate about 40 minutes and didn't take off until after 4:30. We had a two and a half hour flight and arrived in Lanzhou about 7:00. Megan meet us and off we drove for an hour to our hotel. I have to stop here and say than Lanzhou is so very different from Beijing. I have been told it is the poorest province in China and it showed. No fancy airport like in Beijing ( we flew into the new one on Fri which had just opened on wed). It is so barren, nothing green and so dusty. It is very hilly and they are all terraced to prevent errosion. It became a sullen ride as the magnitude of where are children would have grown up sunk in. BUT
we did arrive at our hotel and were told to be back in 20 min. (8:40 pm). OH MY GOODNESS!! Gifts to pack, toys to gather up, paperwork to find....it was madness!!! My family was actually five minutes late and the other two families were already doing paperwork. They were in an adjoining room from the kids and there was no table space so we were told to sit by the kids. I saw Andrew first, then Abby then HUDSON!!! He was all smiles with his nanny. I sat down close to him and he gave us a now all to familiar look, smiled and turned away. Mark sat down to do paperwork while the rest of us tried to interact with him. His personality was showing thru in the familiar arms of his Nanny. Soon, they pulled me away to sign papers and then all of the sudden I turned around and he was being placed in my arms. WELL.........as you can see below, he wanted no part of us!! It was beyond description. Such joy and such saddness all mixed together. To see everyone in the room crying and his nanny running out (that is here in the purple) was when I lost it. Steed told me to just take him up to the room so Jordan and I did while the girls stayed to help video Abby and Andrews famlies. Hudson fought me all the way.....my arms are sore tonight. Once we got to the room and I realized he was not going to let me comfort him I just set him down. He did calm down but continued to wimper and walk around dazed. One by one the girls and my parents came in. We pulled out cheerios and bubbles and got our first smile and laughs. He was fine till I went to take his coat off. I did manage to get it off and along with his pink shoes with flowers and black leather pants he had on a pink sweatshirt that said Princess.....(Kari, that was for you)...... Oh my...,.He loved a toy car we had and soon was happy. UNTIL,,,Major blowout!!! WOW!! He cleared the room. It was so bad my mom had to change him while I was gathering my wits in the hallway (new I would need mom around). SO....a bath was not even a question anymore. In he went and he was VERY upset. It was a quick bath and seemed to bond us a little as he held on to me for dear life. We snuggled for a few minutes in a towel and he let me really cuddle him. I thought he was going to go to sleep but he needed pj's on so that kind of woke him up. He now was mama's boy. He doesn't really want anyone to touch him and really pulls away. We went in the hallyway where soon he took Kailee's hand and off they walked, then Madi. We began to see his personality kick in. I think he is quite silly and made us all laugh. Aside from his head,,,he is rather tiny. MUCH smaller than I expected. My 3t's will be way to big which is mostly what I brought. His feet are also tiny. He is top heavy as his head is so round but we think he will grow into that...LOL!! His schedule said bedtime was 8:00 but this guy was up until 11:30, finally, falling asleep next to me on the bed. He is very interactive with everyone but doesn't really want anyone to hold him except me. He makes a lot of grunting noises but no words as of yet. He is such a character and exactly like we thought he would be. Wow!!! I can't believe I have a little snoring 2 year old behind me. Tomorrow we are up early to do more paperwork and hopefully while we are gone Jordan can figure out the video. We now have internet in our room and a bit more time so we should figure it out.
This has been an incredible, exhausting, exhilirating, LONG day. Every heartache along the way was worth it as this boy who was meant to be ours sleeps behind me. I can hardly wait till tomorrow!!! I am dying to talk with Jenn and Lisa to see how their nights went and get to know their kids tomorrow. Jenn and I were given SWEET pictures of Hudson and Abby together, holding hands and playing. It will be fun to see him see her tomorrow.
Hey girls meeting your little ones tomorrow....nothing can prepare you!!! Thinking of you and can't wait to meet back up at the end of the week!!
Thanks to all who have commented. It means more than you know to know how you are watching and praying. I have followed so many myself and I know how exciting updates are. We will keep them coming!!!!!
(Can't see what i am doing so hopefully the pictures worked and show a little of our evening).

21 comments:

Cheri said...

Congrats Teagues family! Sharon, I know what your talking about with sore arms! It amazes me that something so tiny can be so strong. I am so happy for you all! Praying that Hudson does better tomorrow!

Anonymous said...

Sharon!
I am so happy you have Hudson! When we were in China, Landry spent 3 WHOLE days, even naptime, in her stroller because she didn't want us to mess with her! Also, she was certainly much smaller than we thought too! Your day seems like it was really busy and hurried! Each day Hudson will relax and trust you more and more!! He will soon figure out how cool it is to be a Teague!!! We are all praying for you! Landry can't wait to play with Baby Hudson! :-)
Love,
Jennifer

Wife of the Pres. said...

OHHH, the sleeping pic says it all. He is just precious! Thanks for sharing your experience with us waiting and trying to prepare! WOW! YOU HAVE HIM! We praise You God for this beautiful miracle unfolding!

Anonymous said...

OH oh oh !!!!
Praising Him with you!
Isn't it AMAZING? So happy for your family....
Blessings ~

ramarr said...

We are so happy that you finally have your baby boy!! Praying that he bonds with you all and the rest of the trip is great. Love you guys!


Kelly

Carla Lewter said...

Hey Sharon and family,
So happy to see Hudson in your arms. The fact that he was upset to leave his nanny and that he showed emotion is a great sign. It means he was loved and understands what it means!!!! I can't wait to see more pics, be ready for him to regress back and forth between really wanting to be with you and then wanting his own space. Charlotte did this to us a few times those first few days. It is so amazing to see you all together, Praise God for his blessings. As I was sitting in church this morning I was thinking of you all and praying for a smooth transition. I guess that must have been right around the time you were meeting for the first time. Enjoy yourselves and I can't wait to see his personality shine through.

In Him,
Carla L.

Jenn said...

Oh my!!! He's sooooooo precious!! Love the sleeping picture!

I'm praying for you and your family!

Happy Blessings,

Jenn

Anonymous said...

Oh Sharon! As tears stream down my face, how happy I am for you all!! He is beautiful!!! Thank you for sharing and know that you are continually in my prayers! Love, Mia

Anonymous said...

I'm so glad you sent so many pictures! It's wonderful to see him in your arms!!!!! Enjoy every moment -- even the tough ones! Can't wait to hear more about y'all's time together. Still praying for you...
Jeni

ELE said...

Sharon,
I am Jennifer's Mom and Abby Grace's Nana. I haven't heard from Jennifer since ya'll "Got Them", but thanks to your blog I was able to get this first glimpse of our little one. What a gift these children are to our families and what a blessing all of you ar to them and their future. Thank you so much for sharing, I have been following you all over the months ans especially since last Thursday.
Geannie

Shelley said...

We just read your blog! He's precious! The picture of him sleeping is priceless! We are so thankful that everything is going well. We'll continue to pray for you! Can't wait to hug him ourselves!

Anonymous said...

Praise God!

Randy

Laura said...

Congratulations! We are so excited to meet the newest member of our family. It brought tears to my eyes!

Love you guys!
Laura

3 Peanuts said...

Congratulations! Hudson looks so sweet and eaceful in that sleepong photo! Sounds like you are one happy Mama! I know each day will get a little easier. He needs time to grieve but he will feel your love and take it right in! I love reading your entries and wish you tons of joy and happiness during the rest of your trip.

Kim

P.S. I am not sure if you were referring to me about the pearls or not but I know Denise was buying some for me there;) She said they are really nice!

Anonymous said...

OMG! When i read this i was almost in tears. This is like the biggest way i have ever seen God work his miracles! Ya'll are the most deserving family.
Girls,
i'm soooooooooooooooo happy for you girls yall are going to be great big sisters!
Kaliee,
We missed you girl!The girls loveddddddddddd the room!Mrs.Laurie was VERY impressed!
Madie,
WOW!!!!Here you go again being a great big sister!
Well good night.....or....good morning!
あなたがいなくてすべて!
Kelsey Boyd

Unknown said...

Sharon and Mark - Your new son is soooo precious. He is so blessed to have you for parents and to have Jordan, Madi and Kailee for siblings. I know he will complete your family. Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us. I can't wait to see more pictures and hear more of how he is adapting. My heart so went out to him. We are praying for all of you!!!

Love,

Nicole

Anonymous said...

I was so anxious to look on my computer today to see your pictures and read about your most awaited moment. He is such a cutie, and the one of him sleeping is priceless. Praying for all of you as you adjust. Can't wait to read more about your next few days!

Love and Hugs,
Secret Sis

Anonymous said...

We are so happy that your dream has become a reality! Wishing you much joy and strength in the many days to come. Love the Tollefsons, Bob, Amy, Luke and Grace.

Anonymous said...

How sweet. So happy for all of you and praying for you! I love the pic of Hudson sleeping. So precious!!! See you soon. Cathy

Michele and Dan said...

Congratulations!! I just posted on Jen's site, too. I'm actually up at my mom's, but had to check in to see your "Gotcha Day"!! Love the pictures!! I'm so happy that you finally have your Hudson to hold in your arms. I'm sure he will transition just fine - he's going to see so many new things that he will soon forget any fear or sadness - and he will now always have you that he can count on to comfort him.
Continued blessings ...
Michele B. in GA
bringing jack home

Anonymous said...

Teagues....Loved hearing all about the big!!!! day. Anxious to see more pics. We continue to pray for Hudson's attachment to all of you. You ARE his family. Praise the Lord. (I can't believe our technology, that we can keep up with all that is going on with you and see pics before you even get home) love, jan